Celebrating the Power of Love

This photo of my wife, Stephanie, was taken about 20 years ago.

Photography used to be one of my passions, and I was taking photos of Stephanie and our children in our backyard in Oakland.

Maybe I should pick up my camera again:)


As a I gaze at this photo, I reflect on the power of love, the power of soulmates and the power of destiny.

I wouldn’t be who I am or where I am if she didn’t enter my life in my twenties.

Stephanie helped launch my writing career. She used to be an editor for Essence magazine.
On January 16th, we will relaunch a new version of my book, Meditations Across the King’s River, with a new publisher.

For the past year and a half, Stephanie has been helping me with the new version of my book.
Long days and long nights. I know the ancestors are pleased with the powerful work we’ve done. You will be pleased too.

Can’t wait for you to see the new changes to the book and the bonus chapter. I’ll tell you about some of the changes when the launch campaign begins in January.

Clients ask me about relationships when I perform spiritual readings for them.
I believe most of us have more than one soulmate. We meet them at different stages of our journey.

But soulmate connections are not easy. You will be challenged.

Your soul has to expand. Your mind has to expand. Your heart has to expand.

But beautiful things can happen.

I believe an angel will be sent into your life to help you.

I know you will eventually meet your soulmate or your soulmates.

Be patient.

You don’t have to think about it. You will feel it. You will know.

I had a feeling I would marry Stephanie even when I barely knew her.

It was a flash of intuition that proved to be correct.

You will know who is meant to be in your life.

And you will also know when it’s time to end toxic relationships or friendships.
Would love to hear about your experiences with soulmates. So, write me back when you have a moment.

2023 has proven to be a challenging year for so many around the planet.
My heart aches for all the children that are losing their lives in terrible wars.

Sending love to you and your family in these challenging times.

James

Blessings

Do You Know Your Roots?

If you could talk to one of your loved ones in Spirit what would you say?

And why would you say it?

What would you want to know, and why is it important to you?

I regret not asking Dad and other relatives more questions about my roots when I had the chance.

That’s why I’m grateful for the work my uncle, Gerry Doward, is doing. He’s Mom’s youngest brother.

He’s also a genealogist.

Over the years, Uncle has put some of the pieces of our family’s history and migration together.

And he has also helped other families on St. Croix research their roots.

Uncle says his paternal grandfather, my great-grandfather, migrated to St. Croix from the country of Suriname. His name was Robert Doward.

Yet, there are so many pieces of our ancestral puzzle we still don’t know yet.

I’m hoping to travel to Suriname one day to learn more about the family and culture my great grandfather left behind.

What about you? Are you curious about your roots? How well do you know the stories of your ancestors?

This photo of me and uncle, Gerry is important to me.

It was taken more than 15 years ago during a hike on the north side of the island of St. Croix.

I felt strong ancestral and spiritual vibrations as I hiked with uncle. We swam in a pool made by natural rock formations. The water was soothing and warm. I emerged cleansed and revitalized.

The northside St. Croix is sacred because it’s home to Maroon Ridge – that’s where slaves leapt to their death rather than submit to a life of slavery.

St. Croix scholar and ecologist, Olassie Davis, says “runaway African slaves also developed their own government, culture, trade, and military defense against the colonial powers of the day.”

Our struggles continue…

We have to protect sacred sites, reclaim our culture and tell our own stories.

The land also has stories to tell.

On St. John, Virgin Islands, there’s an ancient petroglyph engraved at the bottom of a waterfall at Reef Bay Valley.

The late Guyanese scholar, Ivan Van Sertima, author of the book, They Came Before Columbus, believed the petroglyph is an ancient African script once used in Libya and Medieval Mali.

Van Sertima said the script was deciphered by the Libyan Department of Antiquities. It reads: “Plunge in to cleanse yourself; this is water for purification before prayer.”

Blessings,

You Have 24/7 Spiritual Support

I believe our ancestors travel back to our world on vibrations of love and hope.

Hope that we will realize we have gifts and spiritual powers, and we should cultivate them.

Hope we will live up to our potential and realize each day is sacred.

Hope we will stop dwelling on folks that let us down and focus on folks that lift us up.

Your loved ones in Spirit are there to guide and support you every step of the way. Trust the signs you see, the messages you hear, and what you feel.

It’s as simple as that.

I’m not sure where or when this family portrait was taken because Dad served in the U.S. Army for 20 years, and we lived in Texas, Japan and California before moving home to St. Croix, Virgin Islands in my early childhood.

I’m dressed in white, leaning against Dad. His name was also James.

My sister, Joan, on the far right, and I, are the only ones left. The rest are in Spirit.

I think about my parents a lot. I know they are pleased the second edition of my book, Meditations Across the King’s River will launch in a few months. A legacy continues.

I’m not the only one in my family feeling ancestral energy.

Two days ago, my son, Malcolm, said he could feel my Mom’s Spirit around him as he was fishing.

She always said Malcolm was her hero — even during his darkest moments. I know she’s proud of his amazing transformation.

As a toddler on St. Croix, Mom taught Malcolm to always respect nature.

Once when he wanted to step on ants that were biting him, Mom said; “don’t step on the ants — just move.”

Ancestral support does not always mean things will go your way. Sometimes the ancestors have a better plan.

Trust the plan. Trust the vision. Feel the love. Embrace it. You have a mission to fulfill. Your legacy must continue.

James

Always Seek Growth

Last month, I received a direct message I wasn’t expecting on Instagram.

The message came from award-winning dancer, choreographer, and actor Adesola Osakalumi.
He’s best known for his starring role in the Broadway musical, Fela, a powerful tribute to the life and legacy of famed Nigerian activist/musician Fela Kuti.

Adesola is of Caribbean descent. His Dad is from St. Thomas, Virgin Islands, and his Mom is from Jamaica.

“I’m working on the Soul Train musical in San Francisco,” he said. “If you’re around, I think you’ll enjoy it. I can get discounted tickets if you’re interested.

I was honored to meet Adesola in person for the first time; my wife and I loved the musical.
Hippest Trip: The Soul Train Musical tells the legacy of Don Cornelius, founder and host of the Soul Train TV show that was hugely popular in the seventies.

Adesola collaborated as a dance consultant and assistant choreographer on Hippest Trip.
I’m sharing this with you because clients often ask me for insights into their purpose.
Some people seem to be born knowing their purpose. Others discover it later in life. I believe our purpose can evolve over time.

Do you feel clear about your purpose? If so, what are you here to do? And are you doing it?
Adesola has been mesmerized by dance, African culture and the performing arts since childhood. He has never lost his passion for it. “I love what I do,” he says.

I’m inspired by his unwavering focus and dedication.

Here’s a bit of wisdom from Adesola: “always believe in yourself. Never stop pushing. If you have a goal or a vision, you’re going to get opposition and different opinions from people. You may not always be met with open arms and support but keep pressing forward.”

I hope this helps. Let’s get it. The world needs your gifts more than ever before.
Stand tall and walk in your purpose.

James

Are You Living The Life You Deserve

A dear friend and client recently sent me some photos via Whatsapp.

I was so happy to receive them. The energy around her was uplifting.

She looked beautiful, happy, relaxed, vibrant, and I was quick to tell her so.

“Decided I’m going to live the life, I deserve. I get to choose what that looks like. The universe will support me. It’s very empowering,” she said.

I’m so proud of her, Constance.

And that’s because I remember the dark days. Not too long ago she was in the midst of a storm.

She faced one challenge after another: Her beloved grandmother died, a family business failed, she was in a car accident, and her marriage was in trouble.

I remember those days so well because we texted almost every day on Whatsapp.

But earlier this year she began making bold moves.

Not only did she file for a divorce; she took a leap of faith and moved to the UK from the Caribbean with her teenage son.

So far, it’s working out great.

Her old boss will provide work she can do remotely. She’s in a beautiful house in the UK with a pool in the backyard.

And she’s around like-minded folks who also had the courage to move on with their lives and embrace something new.

She texted me again a few days ago: “So grateful for the changes I’ve made. We were born to live. Not only is it possible — we deserve it. We were not placed here to struggle, barely scratch out an existence and die,” she said.

I’m sharing her journey with you because I hope it inspires you in some way. If you feel stuck or unhappy, you can move on too.

Not saying you can do it overnight, but surely with patience and a solid plan and lots of determination you can find your way.

I truly believe we can all live richer, more abundant lives.

This is the last quarter of 2023. It’s a great time to start envisioning what you want 2024 to look like.

And it’s also a great time to reflect on changes you need to make to turn things around for the better.

You deserve more, Constance. We all do. You get to decide what that looks like.

Let’s get it.

Blessings!

James

Across the King's River