Leric is gone…
Well, he’s gone but not really gone; he’s making his presence known in many ways.
The accident happened last month in Bermuda when his motorcycle collided with a car.
Leric is the son of one of my clients. He was only 21. He left us on his sister’s birthday. She’s only 25.
We’re still in shock.
I learned about his passing almost in real time via Whatsapp.
One minute, I was talking to his Mom, Angela, about my upcoming trip to Bermuda this month to perform a spiritual ceremony for her.
Then, some sixty minutes later, she called back to tell me there’s been an accident, and it doesn’t look good.
“We need some prayers,” she said.
While she was on the way to the hospital we were messaging each other back and forth. She managed to get there in time to see him still breathing. But a few hours later he was gone.
Angela is a strong woman — yet no parent is ever prepared for the loss of a child.
“I’m struggling with abandonment, and the loss of my son, my blood, my responsibility, my true friend. Someone who was not just good company, but deep company. I’m boring myself to death with these tears but they won’t stop. I definitely need help.”
I’m sharing Angela’s story because even in the midst of all her pain, she is a healer. She wants to use her loss as an opportunity to bring wisdom and encouragement to others.
Angela is a rare soul; God put her together in a different way than most people I know.
In her September 26 eulogy to Leric, Angela said:
Leric’s death is not a tragedy but a radical invitation to explore our connection with spirit and to begin to focus on the deeper meaning of our lives. Leric’s death is a dramatic revelation of not just the continuation of life but the glorious elevation of it.
She added that:
“The fact that Leric may very well have successfully passed all of the requirements his soul endeavored to achieve on earth, and has graduated to the next level of existence with flying colors and the highest honors, and it only took him 21 years to do it — amazing!”
This morning, Angela sent me photos of Leric. They were taken on one of their many walks in nature. She loved how the sunlight mystically enveloped him in each snapshot that day.
Although Angela is struggling, she’s trying to get back on track, doing the things she’s always loved. She still makes time to do spiritual readings for clients using her favorite deck of orisa-inspired tarot cards.
Her advice to others who are grieving the loss of a loved one?
“I love the African indigenous perspective of no separation between worlds. There is no loss. It’s an illusion. I know that we’ve all been through this before in countless lifetimes, but we just can’t remember. Stay close and strong in spirit. Keep your spiritual practice up even when you don’t feel like it because that is truly where our empowerment comes from.”
She’s been encouraged by signs of of Leric’s presence.
About one week after his passing, Angela asked me to do a reading to see what Ifa, the deity of wisdom can reveal about her son.
Using advanced divination techniques I’ve learned over the years, I was able to tell her what family member he was spending the most time with, what his core mission on earth was, and how he is making his presence known that week..
“Pay close attention to butterflies,” I told her.
Rather than tell you about the astonishing encounters that Leric’s family and friends have had with butterflies, I’ve attached two audio files that you can download to and listen to yourself. (See below) I love the enthusiasm in their voices. You MUST check these audio clips out.
AUD-20200918-WA0004(1).mp3
Spiritual messages are real. They happen more often than we think.
Our loved ones do indeed speak to us.
Does this mean all loved ones in Spirit might be communicating via butterflies? Not necessarily — I shared other ways in my book, Meditations Across The King’s River (see the chapter, “Return of the Matriarch.”)
Spirits can choose to communicate in an infinite number of ways such as dreams, memories, songs, inspiration, fragrances, intuition – they can even manipulate photographs, electrical appliances, garage doors, lights, alarm clock and cell phones.
From what Angela tells me, Leric was a quiet soul who loved gardening and had a deep respect for nature. He was employed by the Bermuda Land Development Company, and his entire department shut down for his funeral to pay their respects. Three of his co-workers were pallbearers.
“They talked about his dedication and hard work — that he came to them fully knowledgeable, professional, prepared and ready to work. That he was mature and respectful, and if he stayed he would have gone far. They said the place will never be the same again.”
“Leric’s transition is prompting many people to delve deep into spiritual matters, the possibility of life after death, what it’s like on the Otherside — all the things that people never like to take into consideration.”
This is all for now, .
It’s clear that Leric was a master teacher. Honored to have been in his classroom. Job well done.
We can’t take this moment nor our loved ones for granted. Of course, we all know this — the challenge is to remember it.
The challenge is to also remember why we are here, and to treasure each blessing we’ve been given.
Sending love to you and yours.
I’m on my way to Bermuda but will be thinking of you.
Let’s talk soon!
James
Author Meditations Across The King’s River
P.S. Still available for spiritual readings.
P.S. Meditations Across The King’s River can be ordered here:
James